Sad Sister

October 26, 2008

My sister Samantha went to college recently and I am still having trouble trying to not cry so much. You see, we are really close and it is really hard to wake up in the morning and be able to handle the fact that she isn't there. Every time I listen to certain songs I remember her and start to cry. I also keep a picture next to my bed of her and sometimes even that makes me sad. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can get my mind off of her and stop crying so much? ~Christina

Christina I no how you feel. When my sis left for her own place i was so upset. but then we started keep in touch. we would call each other in the morning, call each other before bed. any way we just kept in touch and we were still just as close. so try calling her
Morganne - Tucson - Posted: 11/2/2008 1:05 PM

what i would do is just think about fun times you had together.
sophie - va - Posted: 11/2/2008 9:10 AM

i would call her to and that way you could get your mind off her or ask friends to go to a party.
mary - fredericton - Posted: 11/1/2008 4:19 PM

my sister just went to collage too and i am sad but what i did is i kept emailing her and calling her and i think about other stuff !!
rhea - seminole - Posted: 11/1/2008 12:59 PM

You should try to do some more activities and hang out with your buds a lot so that you don't have enough time to think about your sister. Also, schedule a time with her so that every night you can call her and talk to her, so that you have a warm feeling about her every night when you go to bed.
Jihane - Middleton - Posted: 10/31/2008 9:37 AM

My brother went 2 college 2...u just have to spend more time with ur parents and friends...just enjoy life.Before u know it u and ur sister will be together again.So don't be sad,because i know u and ur sister will be together again
Claritha - Helena - Posted: 10/30/2008 10:28 PM

I would just remember that she will be back to visit soon. You could even make a box filled with things that remind you of her like her favorite candy bar or craft. I hope that helped!
Marigold - gilbert - Posted: 10/29/2008 1:54 PM

I have an older sister too. The only thing is......is that we are not that close. We get along sometimes, but for the most part we are at eachother's throats. I am hoping to see a change between us. But anyways, back to you. I think you should just think of all the good times you've had with you're sister. I mean what else can you do. Everyone's got to grow up. Eventually you'll probably be in colledge too. So all you can do is focuse on the good. Forget that you miss her. Just think about what it'll be like when you see her again! Hope I could help!! ~Blair~
Blair - Omaha - Posted: 10/27/2008 10:03 PM

I think you should live with he fact she isnt there me and my sister are really i mean really close but we get in certain fights but ur problem is diffrent try hanging out with ur best friends and you should be glad ur sister is in college getting a good educatoin and so you should be really hard and try not to thinnk about her in bad situations.When ur about to cry remember ur sister is doing a great thing going to college.
Vanessa - St.louis - Posted: 10/27/2008 8:13 PM

Hey what you need is a good friend. You need to talk about this with someone let all your feelings out. Think about all the fun things you guys can do in the future. You can go and visit her during holidays. You and her can be penpals. Hang in there and be strong
vanessa - new york - Posted: 10/27/2008 11:45 AM

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